3 Q's About Your Identity, Desires and Life Plan (Ps. Your Wild Woman Has the Answers)

Image: Larisa Barta, Unsplash

Image: Larisa Barta, Unsplash

The moment you decide to be you, the sooner you will resonate with your every day. The longer you resist parts of you, and hide your true self, the longer you will prolong the sense of getting to know who you are (all parts), or how all of you fits in, or doesn’t.

You have the ability to be more than one shape. You can blend, conform, contort yourself to squeeze into all sorts of weird and wonderful situations, places and circumstances.

You can be malleable to your surroundings, to influence, to circumstances.

But deep within, there is a constant you. Your soul's voice is consistent no matter who is with her, where she is, or what she does.

This soulful woman is authentic, wild you.

WILD WOMAN. The natural woman you were born to be.

How centred do you feel right now, to this part of you?

How far away are you from your wild, authentic roots and the creative living you crave most?

Listen in. Your intuition will guide you to how you can return to your centre.

Here's a coaching exercise to help you.


First, I’d recommend you listen to our free meditation to still your mind and body.

It is easier to tap into your intuition and visioning ability when you feel calm and peaceful, and have ironed out the tensions present in your body from your day. 

Before you press play, have a notebook and pen to hand, and a glass of water. Perhaps have a blanket nearby in case you want warmth after lying still.

Make sure you keep this blog post visible (on your phone or laptop) so you can do step 2 straight afterwards. 

When you hear the last of Deborah’s words, the track will stop. Click to this point in the post once again.

After the meditation you will be here:

Take a moment.

Take a sip of water. Get warm and stretch if you want to.

Pick up your pen and paper. 



Centre your breathing once again:

Inhale deeply. Exhale deeply.

Inhale deeply. Exhale deeply.

Inhale deeply. Exhale deeply.

Now, ask your Wild Woman for guidance from within.

Ask her the 3 questions below and listen. Make a note of what she tells you. Ask her the next question, until you’ve asked, listened, and noted down all 3 answers.

Dialogue with your Wild Woman

You: “I call on you, my wise, Wild Woman to guide me now and give me clarity and strength.”  
Wild Woman (WW): {Imagine this part of you deep within is awake and ready to guide you}.

You: "Who am I – and who am I not?"

You: "What do I really want in MY life ahead (not compared to others)?"

You: "What do I need to do to return to my truer self, and to my desired life path?"

Now, what do you notice about her guidance?


What else would you like to ask her? Ask her now. 

You: ".........."

What actions will you take to follow your Wild Woman's intuitive guidance?


N.B. Remember there is only ever one version of you. Embrace all parts, no matter your gender, size, colour, age, faith, sexuality, profession, income or relationship status. All of you is unique. There are parts of you that stretch you, energise you, drain you – but love them all. This is you.

Let me know how you get on. It isn't always easy to come back to centre when there is much to distract you away from who you are and what you want.

My email is mariemilligan@wildwomendo.co.uk if you'd like to ask me anything that will help you bring you back to your creative centre and back on the path you would prefer to be leading towards next.

Love and light, Marie x

Marie Milligan

I'm the Founder of Wild Women Do, a coaching network and movement for creative, entrepreneurial women needing support to create and launch something inspirational. A Holistic Business Coach, Entrepreneurship Educator and Writer, I love nothing better than helping you release your creative spirit, and get your ideas expressed and done.